Welcome 2013 !!!

 “Life is filled with so many exciting twists and turns. Hop off the straight and narrow whenever you can and take the winding paths. Experience the exhilaration of the view from the edge. Because the moments spent there, that take your breath away, are what make you feel truly alive."

                                                                                             - By Stacey Charter 

    

Our lives made up of moments only. Isn’t it? Some moments are joyful, unforgettable, some are painful, and some are irrelevant and ignored; yet all moments have contributed to different phases of our lives. 

Moment decides our fate. It takes a moment to confess something nice or bad to someone. In a fraction of moment we generally take any decisions. Although exceptions are always there!!!

I have had my moments of hurt and my moments of pride, joy and the moments still are the priceless in my life.

What I learned from all the moments that I faced in life that, ‘LIVE THE MOMENT’ which is of course a very well known quote. 

2012 was so special in my life, and I am so excited to face… 2013…….Letz wait and watch. J

Recently I read a quote, which makes me to think allot.

“If you want something in your life you’ve never had,

You’ll have to do something, you’ve never done.”  –JD Houston

Wishing everyone , very happy and prosperous new year... Keep Rocking.

Boss is aLwAyS rite!

Yesterday i decided myself to update my boss personally, that i am planning

to resign this month end.

So i prepared myself mentally to face my boss in his cabin, as per my seniors advice.

But no use, as expected he finished the discussion as like something wrong with me L L L

I don’t know, what is the problem with him?

In my past 3.5+ years , he never given any chances to anyone to explain anything.

Whatever it be, if he is telling , that we need to follow. If someone is not ready, that's it .

" he will shout & torture him like anything ".

Sometimes i used to think, whether i am wrong? Or he is right? Most of the times their won’t be any answer  for this question,  because he is completely dominating  us to avoid those space to find any answers. Oh my god... mudiyala J J J

anyways , he given me a great and wonderful opportunity  to explore myself to face any challenge in my life. It’s all great experiences, it’s going to help me out in my complete life . So sincere thanks to him . Thank you sir. J

Started ,Counting my days to get me out of this place. J

Chennai Calling...

Today I got my offer letter. Finally I am moving back to chennai in the last week of
Jan 2013. While reading that letter, I don’t know why, but my heart beat increased and I felt strange.
All of the sudden, I found myself in a thick blanket of memories.

Sometimes it becomes too difficult to come out from some incidences that happened with us in the past.

I have completed more than three years here and in these three years I have experienced almost every feeling that anyone can expect from life. Don’t want to think about more. I am happy!!!
Finally I am going to live with my mom after four years and it really means a lot for me :) :)

It's time to explore my city . :) :) :)

Winning

When you are winning, who thinks about losing. But basically even if you are winning, you should keep an eye on the loosing , it can come at any time and change your victory to defeat.

Smile Please.

my dear friend who having a hard time with her computer..
you better bring for medical checkup asap if not later it reach the final stages of sickness then very 'susahh' cure.. ;)

A smiles seems to be the most simple thing to do yet some people think its hard to share a smile. Do you know that a simple smile will brighten someone's day??.. Its just a smile and it doesn't cost anything.. so my fellow friends if you meet a stranger o whoever just share ur smiles as it will brighten ur days as well.. ('',) don't be so selfish to share ur smile ya.. as happiness are suppose to be share with everyone..

A day without a smile seems like you are living in darkness who doesn't know how to be happy.. so when you smiles make sure it is sincere and from the heart as it will really make the rest of your days happy.. ;)

Reasonss...

“Everything happens for a reason.

  Every action has a reaction.

  Always remember that what’s meant to be will always find a way to come about.”

Sometimes in our lives, when we are feeling low due to some difficult circumstances, we think this “Why only me is facing this situation while my friends/colleagues are enjoying their lives”.
From my personal experiences, I truly believe that “Everything happens for a reason and a purpose, and it serves you.” At times things seem to be bad but when you look back you know there was a good reason why that happened. I feel when we accept what we have and where we are, the intense peace and power that we get enable us to overcome the toughest situation in life.

 May we all realize that life is fair and beautiful and we should enjoy its each and every moment.

This Too Shall Pass.....

Worry, doubt, fear and despair are the enemies which slowly bring us down to the ground and turn us to dust before we die. 

Most of us worry time to time. Some people worry occasionally depending upon the circumstances on the other hand some worry constantly, more often about their relationships, health, job, future etc...

Worrying is not good for health. It increases the stimulation of some stress hormones in our body and has long term side effects as well. Sometime we cannot change unfavourable circumstances in our life so rather than worrying about that we should think positively and accept that situation. ‘This too shall pass’ is one of my favourite quotes. Whenever I feel depressed or low, I recalled this thought. This thought always reminds me that life is not static in nature; it keeps on changing its pace. So we should never waste our time by thinking on temporary hardships....

I think the best way to avoid worrying is to learn to overcome our uncertainties for the future. Most of the people concerned about the things that probably won’t happen. Worries are basically fears and the best way to overcome any fear is to confront it....

Be Smile & Enjoy Life.

Note:- I am dedicating this blog to my colleague  who makes me to think and post this into my page after long time. Thanks dear. :) 

Relationship

Something to always remember about relationship:-

"Relationship is like a paper, once crushed the crease remains forever."

So be very careful when you are in relationship. Out of anger or frustration you might say something which can hurt the other person. When you are in relationship, please don’t get judge mental, but try to admire the honesty and loyalty of the other person.

Please never ever take permanent decision for your temporary emotions.

“Relationship of all kind is just like you are holding sand in your fist.
If you hold firmly with freedom and respect, they stay for long time.
If you hold tightly, they fall down”.

Understand what they needs, sometime in-order to please them, back down.
Be enough mature and understanding in a relationship. Remember your sensible thinking will keep your relationship healthy for a long time.

“Never take someone for granted. Hold every person close to your heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you’ve last a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones…”

Don’t allow the delicate thread of love (between individuals) to snap. Once it snaps, it cannot be rejoined and if you do rejoin it, there is a knot in it.

So, let’s understand what relationship is all about and live life happily

Believe in yourself!!!

“Just be true to yourself, follow your gut instincts on what you want to do and what makes you happy”

(I don’t know the author of the above quote as I have taken it from Facebook. It was posted by one of my friends there)

We often live our lives according to what others expect from us. Unfortunately in the course of meeting those expectations, we often forgot to listen to our heart or what we really want in life.

I think the best way to find out what you really want in life or what makes you happy is to follow what your inner voice tells you. For this; spend some time alone and jot down all the points that are bothering or preventing you from taking any decisions. Start making decisions based on your real wishes not for the sake of the image you have created in front of the other’s person. Just Believe in yourself and follow your intuition which often gets drowned in the practical thoughts of mind. You will definitely feel better. JUST BE TRUE TO YOURSELF.....

BTW, Now weather is awesome in Muscat. There is a cold breeze flowing outside.  I am going to balcony to enjoy the climate J .

 

Why do we shout???????

A saint asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the saint. ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint. Finally he explained, ‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’
Then the saint asked, ‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’
The saint continued, ‘When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.’

MORAL : When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.
I hope guys all of you will agree on this. This was sent to me by a friend today & I totally agree on this.

Happy Birthday Malar!

It's my sister's birthday.

I’d just like to take the moment to greet my sister a Happy Birthday. J

Now you are another year older and another year wiser J.

I hope that you have a wonderful birthday and may all your wishes come true! 

With lots of love,
- ur brother J

Again TAG!!!

@Feb - 18th 2012
Here comes a Tag. This time i grabbed the tag from the same groovy. It’s all very good number of funny quiz. So I decided to post in my page. Few questions made me to think allot. Thinking which i never did after joining OTE (hehehehe……)

Grab the book nearest to you, turn on page 18 and find line 4.

“..Oliver Luik and Bernhard Braun , who measured performance in CPU Cycles ..”
        Its from Brian McKellar's SAP Advanced BSP Programming.

Stretch your left arm out as far as you can & catch air?
     - Repaired BAR CODE device charger.

What is the last thing you watched on TV?
    - SUN TV – Song “Mana Madurai kudura kalakuthu da……”Movie :- Thimiru…

Without looking, guess what time it is?
    - 5.50 PM

Now look at the clock, what is the actual time?
   - 6.00 PM.. Oh My God. I almost made it! Hurray!!!

With the exception of the computer, what can you hear?
   - My Colleague Ashkar discussing seriously with end user for some critical issue.

When did you last step outside? What were you doing?
   -Today afternoon. Came back to office after the lunch break .

Before you started this Q&As, what did you look at?
   -Me and Safel, were discussing about my Boss(Mr.Dilip Somani) trip to Dubai

What are you wearing?
   -Formal Shirt & Pant with Casual Adidas Shoe

When did you last laugh?
   -At lunch, We were discussing some good creative our imagination’s from the movie Thimiru – fight scene(hahaha) .

What is on the walls of the room you are in?
   -Now I am in office, so I am finding only the Window A/C ‘s .

What do you think of this quiz?
   -Its letting out all my secrets

What is the last film you saw?
   -Vettai –itha parthi sollum allavukku onnum illa,
   -Brave Heart (It’s Inspire’s me allot!!!) it’s awesome .

If you became a multimillionaire overnight, what would you buy?
    -I don't like spending money, instead I will give half the amount to people suffering from cancer, then I will take some amount for my personal requirements and the rest to Orphanages!

Tell me something about you that I don't know!
   -Easy understanding of other’s problem . This gives me more friends.

If you could change one thing about the world, regardless of guilt or politics, what would you do?
   -Want to stop the bribery! A thing that happened very recently. For my new house registration, I paid 10,000 as a bribery in the register office.

Do you like to Dance?
   -Some times .

Imagine your first child is a girl, what do you call her?
   -Girl child...err..hmmm... I want to call her priya (Those who know my secrets will understand this one )

Imagine your first child is a boy, what do you call her?
   -Haan...I want to call him kevin!!!

Would you ever consider living abroad?
   -Now I am in Abroad. I came here unexpectedly,It’s ok . but now I want to go back to india.

What do you want GOD to say to you when you reach the pearly gates?
   -Oh finally you came!! Heaven lost the sweetness and beauty when you left to earth. Now the sweetness came back.

I am tagging this to everyone who is seeing this post and whomever wishes to write this tag.

Hope you all liked this one !!!!

Happy Birthday My Blog!!!

Today is my one year blog anniversary! On this day last year, I posted my very first blog post on My Sister’s Birthday with the thought that no one would ever want to really read anything that I wrote. But my oh gosh, how a year flies by!

Thank you so much to everyone who reads and comments on the blog... it means so much to me to have a place to share my THOUGHTS! It’s all about my experience’s.

Thanks again for your Support's.

8 Wonders TAG

Thanks to Shilpa for sharing this TAG, 
This is all about the 8 Secrets of me. J 

8 TV Shows I Love to Watch

• Comedy shows
• அது இது எது
• Melody Songs from any channel
• Movie review’s
• Man Vs Wild
• Air Crash Investigations
• Dangerous Encounters
• New Buildings and Design of the constructions

The last 4 - (I am forced to love these…coz the remote is never in my hands!) போச்சு Geja கதவ ஓடைக்க போறான் னு நெனைக்குறேன்   

8 Favorite Places to Eat

• Home (Food cooked by MOM)
• Just Around The Corner (Dindigul)
• Sarvana Bhawan (Chennai)
• Chettinad Resturant (Chennai)
• Ponraam Biriyani kadai (Dindigul)
• Hyderabad Biriyani(Muscat)
• Wood lands Resturant (Duria Gunj)
• Karai kudy Resturant (Muscat)

8 Things I’m Passionate About

• My SAP
• My Family
• My Friends
• My Laptop
• My Ambition
  
• Food
• Cleanliness J
• Any new innovative Technology

8 Places I Would Love to Go or See or Visit

• Thevaram - My Dad Birth place
• Dindigul 
• Switzerland
• Paris
• Australia
• Italy
• Las Vegas
• Singapore

8 Words or Phrases I Use Often

• Gud!
• Wow!
• Thanks !
• போடா!
• டேய்
• புரியல
• Yup
• Rite

8 Things of my unforgettable moments from my past

• "Walking in the rain" – I and mathi used to do this, so many times at my school days I remember.
• Cricket matches – Now I am surprising “How I played like that????”
• Words of My Aunty .
• My Dad death
• Shifting to Chennai from Dindigul
• Infosys Joining date of My sister
  
• My NIIT Days – No job, No money,lots of problems... but still we enjoyed allot.
• My TVSI Days with M.S, C.S, Jai, Balaji, S.P, anna’s….(M.S – He is the initiator of my SAP carrier. உங்க சிஷ்யன் னு சொல்லுறது ல நான் பெருமை படுறேன் அண்ணா J) & My Visnova days – மறக்க முடியுமா!!!!.. North india full a சுத்துனது(Shankar, Mani, kumar, dhanush,eswar, prasanth..... Miss you all :( :(- It's not so easy to write, these all experience in a single line. i will do this in my upcoming posts) .

8   Mistakes which I did

• Once I had a fight with My friends (Hari & Mathi)for some unknown reason  .But after knowing about my father, they came for me to hold my hands.

I think it's not too late,This I am writing from my heart to you guys…(I am extremely sorry for that incident, you guys proves me a real friendship. Thanks Gudoo’s J)

• Again it’s a matter of friendship, I can define this in a simple quote –                 “Friend in need's a Friend in deed” – (Saravan)
• At my 9 th standard, I lied to my teacher for some homework, then he hitted me ,like anything.
• My college first year physics sir incident, sorry it’s an accident.
• Still I am maintaining the ego with my brother, day by day it's becoming stronger
• I never used to listen my DAD words . :(
• College 3rd year diwali dress – கில்லி costume.. aiiooo kadavula.
• It’s a common one – most of the time, I am not able to call or chat with my juniors, seniors, colleague’s, and my friends . though they understood my situation’s, I am not feeling good about this L

8 Things I Have Learned From My Past

• Silence is the best answer
• Don’t think too much
• Be cool for anything, let it go away
• Be chary of giving advice, wise don’t need it and fools don’t heed it!
• Don’t lose confidence for anything, any reason.
• Family is link to our past and bridge to our future.
• Friends are the most important ingredient in this recipe of life.
• Love people and they will love you back

8 Things That Happened Yesterday

• Expected Mail from a expected person - thanks for a nice reply, after long time.
• Lunch taken with fish Kolambu prepared by Geja.
• After taken lunch felt Headache :( :(.
• Chairman uncle son Muhammed appreciated me, for sharing my knowledge with him.
• Decided to book my tickets on May 16^th 2012 for my House warming function.
• Chatted with Mom, Uncle, Malar, Mappilai thru VZO chat.
• Boss discussed with me to improve some technical headache’s, same stories…
• Anbu prepared super upuma, it was really so nice to take!

  (Writing this post on 14^st, hence these are the happenings of February 13^th!!)

8 Things I Look Forward To

• Now  eagerly waiting for our little champ to become MAMA.
• Meeting my Mom and sisters again
• Meeting some good old friends(who is there for me always)
• Meeting some seniors(who really supports me to start my carrier)
• Learning the new trends of SAP
  
• H1B VISA - very badly I need this L.
• Barcode Printer for Mobile application task - to interface with SAP,DOTNET,JAVA – I have to clear this issue as early as possible else my boss (Mr.Dilip Somani) will increase his volume.
• Spending time with My aunty(Mrs.Umanathan-she is the one who encourages me, when I was alone) L

8 Things I Love About Winter

• Masala Tea
• Deep sleep
• Mom special dishes
• Early morning devotional song (still I remember my school days)
• Basking in the Sun
• Kodaikanal
• That Warm Cozy Feeling
• The Cold Nip in the Air

8 Things on my Wish List

• A Long Vacation
• A good health for my parents
• Staying close with my friends, I don’t want to lose anyone for any reason
• Happiness and Success for my family
• Terror free India
• Poverty free world
• I need one more chance to stay happily with my People,Those who are not with me (My brother, My chithi……. )
• Managing all the fundoos of my boss.

Thanks again.

bE hApPy with your JOB.

Today one of my friend called me.
He says that "he is not happy with his current job". He was very depressed and wants to leave the company ASAP. In the entire conversation, I tried to console him and advised him to keep looking for a change. But, after that I realized that how important is to be happy with your work since we spend most of the time there. If you are happy with your work, your productivity will automatically goes up. However if you are not satisfied, then definitely you will not feel good, your energy level, productivity, enthusiasm goes down, which is not at all good for your personal as well as professional life.

Most of the people are not happy in what they are doing and sometimes they even don’t know that what will make them happy. There are lots of people who want to start their own business, but because of fear of failure they never start it. What I feel is that it is natural human tendency. We never want to come out of our comfort zone. We are often get struck by negative thoughts, What if I fail? Will I able to get a new job again? Can I really do it?

And so on…

I am a lucky person because I know what I want from my life. I love my work and want to learn new things in my field.

Life is beautiful, the way it is....

Today I read the following beautiful poem....

Smile, without a reason why
Love, as if you were a child,
Smile, no matter what they tell you
Don't listen to a word they say
Cause life is beautiful that way.

Tears, a tidal wave of tears
Light, that slowly disappears
Wait, before you close the curtain
There is still another game to play
And life is beautiful that way

Here with his eyes forevermore
I will always be as close as you
remember from before
Now that you're out there on your own
Remember what is real and
what we dream is love alone

Keep the laughter in you eyes
Soon your long awaited prize
We'll forget about our sorrows
And think about a brighter day
Cause life is beautiful that way.

We'll forget about our sorrows
And think about a brighter day,
Cause life is beautiful that way
There's still another game to play
And life is beautiful that way.

Isn’t so true? We are so busy in our monotonous lives that sometimes we forget to experience the beauty of life...In this constantly varying material age, we frequently complain that we are driven by the force of circumstances... life is too short...one should enjoy every moment of it ... Call your family members/friends and express your feelings towards them...how much they are important in your life...feel the beauty of nature, make reason of someone’s smile...do whatever you want in your life because

"ஒரு நாளில் வாழ்க்கை இங்கே எங்கும் ஓடி போகாது
மறு நாளும் வந்து விட்டால் துன்பம் தேயும் தொடராது
எத்தனை கோடி கண்ணீர் மண் மீது விழுந்திருக்கும்
அத்தனை கண்ட பின்னும் பூமி இங்கு பூ பூக்கும்".......