Last April....

Thank God after so many days; finally I got time to post this blog in my page.
Life is so unpredictable.
Last april I admitted at the hospital for Jaundice.

"டேய்... இத மட்டும் சாப்பிடு டா....please டா....
"நீ வருத்த படாத டா.... நாங்க இருக்கோம்..உன்னோட...
"என்ன வென்னும் நாலும் சொல்லு நாங்க செய்றோம்... நீ கஸ்டப்படாத.....
"காக்க காக்க படத்துல வர மாதிரி "எங்க என்னோட மாயா "னு எழுந்திரு டா..........
"அது எப்படி டா அந்த nurse a பார்தொன்ன அமைதி ஆகிடுர......
"மச்சி சீக்கிரம் ready ஆகு da, அப்போ தான் தங்கச்சி கல்யாணத்துல நிறைய figure உசார் பண்ண முடியும்...
"Night எத்தன மணி க்கு எழுந்தாலும், கூடவே எழுந்து..."என்ன டா வேணும், சொல்லு நான் செய்யுறேன்...."
"என்ன பிடித்து கோ....நடக்க கஸ்டமாக இருந்தா.....
"குளிக்க வைத்து...
"சாப்பாடு ஊட்டி...
"நான் தூங்கும் வரை கூட இருந்து...."

These are the very few auspicious moments.. which i had with my friends.......
Anbu ,Arun ,Geja ,Ramneet ,Nasar ,Sudheer & all.....

"Friends are really indispensable part of life.
They make you realize that you are important for them".

At that time I was fully depressed. I don't know, but it was painful which i never had before.
i remember the day... "there was a dream like searching my dad.....@ some where...."
the same day evening my friends came with Mr.Sridharan sir to encourage me.

"......பரவால இப்போவே ,hospital ல admit ஆகிட்டேன் னு சந்தோசம் பட்டுக்கோ.... sister marriage அப்போ இப்படி ஆகி இருந்த எப்படி சமாளிச்சு இருப்ப...கொஞ்சம் யோசிச்சு பாரு? கடவுள் உன் கூட தான் இருக்காரு... எல்லாம் நன்மைக்கே....னு நெனச்சுக்கோ.... சீக்கிரம் சரியாகி, sister கல்யாண த ஜாம் ஜாம் னு நடத்துவ பாரு......."

which really motivates me to prepare myself.
it took 10 days...to come back to normal.

But all of our tiredness went off when I shown my smiling face to my friend's and then
they started doing acting like me when I was in hospital, discussions on doctors,nurse.
One of the nurse was pretty. So they all scolded me for early discharge from the hospital
as we could not see that nurse again.
They tried to attempt everything to make me smile and to forget about my illness.
From this incident, I realized the strong bond that exists between me and my friends.....
 

after coming back, my collegue's were discussing ,
"...Bala was very lucky....his friends were their with him all the time at the hospital...."
really i was feeling very proud to be a part of this journey.
Thank god :).

 

Wat's wrong?...

                              I don’t know why but usually these days I’m getting unexpected responses from some of my old mates. I have a good habit to take some time & pass on my good wishes on any special occasion to the concerned person, so doesn’t matter how small the occasion is. I always remember those dates & make sure to wish them. The only logic behind this behavior is that, I know it always feels nice when your cell phone beeps specially on your birthday or so on… I do it with literally no expectations, as I have been doing this since long back & obviously what can I expect from a old friend whom I’ve not seen say almost more than a decade.

But past few days I observed that I was not getting proper response from the person, who was my close friend I just wished.

Ok let me tell you one incident happened recently. One of my engineering mate chatted with me on the mail after long long time. Since 5 years, we were out of contact. I happily responded him & I asked how was going… as expected there were few messages exchanged. But finally it's ended with disappointment.

I don't know what's wrong in between us.

After finishing my college, no one was connected to each other like our olden days.

But he was asking me... "Where I went for the past 5 years...& suddenly from whr I came back?"...Which makes me to think?

I don’t want to justify myself, but just trying to find “what's wrong in this?"
At the end of my college we separated and we moved towards to find our own path. So many problems & tensions, which produced a distance between all and now we are here @ somewhr of our journey.

Of course we all separated, but coming back with old cherish moments will be always, like refreshing our old relationships. I hope he will understand me after sometime..cheers...

Always remember that no one is perfect. Everyone has one or more limitations. Accept yourself and persistently believe in your capabilities.

Keep smile J

Motivational Thoughts...

A few days ago, one of my friends sent a speech through an e-mail.

I just love the message which is conveyed through it.  

So I am posting it in my blog......

Hi Friends....

Thanks all for the great response and support for my last blog. It’s really happy and nice to see the replies from you all. Now I want to write more in my blog, But in my mind only thoughts related to work tasks, which needs to complete  .

Next 20 days is going to be one of the hectic days for me…need to complete so many issues else my boss ll start all the bla bla tensions……...so I don’t know what to write today.

It is better to signoff my blog page rather than thinking about these thoughts JJJ

iT's mY cOlLeGe mEmOrIeS.....

College days are the most memorable element in anybody’s life. I have spent four years in PSNA CET and blindly I can say that it was the best part of my life.

In those four years I met many people. I was attached to many…. I discovered me as new with more confident, extrovert and self dependent.

Those four years of my life were really good….I met many who contributed to my life in one or the other way…

I remembered the movie 'Dil Chahta Hai' . It has to be one of the best movies ever made . It really touches me..whenever i saw it.

Friendship, loneliness, love, sacrifice, happiness, sadness, marriage, abusive relationships....it skirts a lot of subjects which effect us today...

There is one particular scene which has been haunting me always.....

The three friends in the movie are sitting on top of a fort overlooking the beautiful coastline of Goa... Aamir tells his friends, that they should come to Goa every year for a week without fail. Akshaye points to a boat in the distance and tells them that their lives are currently like that boat. It might just happen that their destinations lie in different places...and it might just happen that even seeing or talking to each other every once in a while becomes difficult..and remains just a memory. The movie somewhat proceeds on these lines...till the friends (and their partners) all get together in the end. At the difficult times in their life, when they needed someone around...their friends would somehow reach them and be there..for them. It’s an all time classic...I just love it.

This brings back memories of my college days :).

All I can recall is that first seminar when I was shivering with stage fear….trips with friends and night studies….hanging out treats…B’day parties…headache with arrear's.... bunking classes ...I.V’s…frequent semester exams and so on….Life was always fun and exciting in PSNA.

Beautiful, priceless memories that I know I won't be able to do justice to..even in a thousand words or a novel dedicated to em.

Memories of the first year Kodai trip, accomadated @ ஊராட்சி ஒன்றியம், rajasekar, manavalan, pandiyarajan, hariharan, nithyanantham, kanagaraj and me.

Night studies - which will be very serious ,because the next day will be the semester exams.

"a friend is a one who disappointed more if you scored very less marks.

 a friend is a one who disappointed more and more if you scored very good marks."

it’s true and we too realized this from all the semester exam results(..lol…).

successful bunk's - Next day apology submitted with enquiry @ HOD cabin

first NSS camp to some village - one and only with upuma's, cleaning the road’s,.......

RUN, KADAL KONDEN,……most favorite movies.. we were their in the theatre at all the show’s J JJ

onetime there was some bench wise event in our class room .

so from the each beach all the five should conduct some show in front of others, that was the motto of the period.

we too discussed and decided to present a fashion show with funny costumes and our slot also came, so we all five ready to get up into the stage to start the show.

As per the script first shot :- kanagaraj went to the stage and he said... "இவர்களுக்கு அணிய தடை இல்லை என்றால்..." and he came down....

in the next shot,  myself, mano, sekar, rahamath needs to start the walk at the stage with different costumes,

we too ready.. but before getting up into the stage, immediately we just sat down in the beach.

mano went alone to the stage... and he was waiting for us by searching our faces..

but we sat down and totally hided from mano eye's.

so after sometime he managed himself at the stage and he started the show by showing his half hand arms,and bishups and .................

after the show we were laughed like anything. it was one of the funniest moment which we never had before.....

Department fest – ECBLITZ days spent working with friends, it was the first responsibility which we took by our own.

paper presentation's....record note submissions....final year project & presentation's......

placement preparations- thou it’s a serious climax, but we did with lots of fun.

The list will be so long and full of beautiful, priceless memories.

It is very difficult to expect something from other people apart from your family members. I am one lucky person who is blessed with such kinds of people :)

Today life is full of commitments, deadlines and too many worries. But those cherished moments we spent in PSNA will live forever in our memories. I just wish all my friends and classmates all the best for their future endeavors….

This is the blog dedicated to all my friends...to those who have always been there for me through thick and thin... It’s for them who are there for me today...even though I'm out of sight nowadays. For them who would ping me on gtalk or Facebook, if I have not been posting up anything lately :). Guys...Always keep doing so..and in case you haven't lately...please start :). I promise to keep my end of the bargain with you and do the same. 

My High School Days....

"பாலா மதி வந்துட்டான், நீ இன்னும் கெலம்பலையா?..."

its a sound, everybody used in my home...at my school days.

Mathi is always perfect than me, in all the matters.

so today also we are late, because of me :-(

then hari house.

hhmm..

hari is more perfect than both of us.

so most of the time he will be ready and he used to waiting for us.

yea now we all on the track to school by pedaling the cycles.

ok now we reached our school.

morning prayer starts......

"ஒரு தாய் மக்கள் நாம் என்போம், ஒன்றே எங்கள் குலம் என்போம்......."

everybody managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.

10 - 15  minutes...(....hOt sUn.... )

ok its over.. returning back to classroom's..

1st period CMR class...

Everyone will think.

"போச்சு இன்னைக்கு என்ன நடக்க போகுது எவன் மாட்டா போறான்?..."

CMR is inside....entire class will be like watching some horror movie.."மயான அமைதி"

as usual he started asking questions.. and some one will be the victim of the day..

this is the time of my high school days….

Most of us would agree that the days we spent in high school were certainly

the important of our lives.

It was in school that we made our friends, competed to excel,

hoped for places in the sports and learned our first lessons about life.

Memories come flooding back when we started to thinking off.....

We had lunch in classrooms, corridors, Playgrounds, under the trees and

even in cycle stands!....

When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table,

Was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!...

When cricket was played with writing pads, slippers as bats, some waste paper,

seeds will be rolled into balls!...

Of Sports Day,and the Annual School Day,And the one-month long preparations for them.

Of the stressful Quarterly,Half Yearly and Annual Exams,

And the most enjoyed holidays after them!

Of tenth and twelfth standards, when We Spent almost the whole year writing revision tests!

"Good Friends don't let you do Stupid things... alone " - Yea we did so many things

(I hope you remember .. lol...)

onething i just want to remind here.

it was +1 mid-term exam zoology paper, as usual question was very tough.

I don't know "wat to write in the answer sheet".. so i just decided to fill the papers by writing something, even if it is not related to the questions... so i started writing vigorously...

after sometime mathi called me to show some answers , which i written in my answer sheet.

i know its wrong.. but not able to explain him.. though it's an exam hall.. so i shown him, he also felt very happy and written the same as like me..

at last in that paper, I scored very less mark than him and we both of us failed.

it was really fun.

We learnt,

We enjoyed,

We played,

We won,

We lost,

We laughed,

We cried,

We fought,

We thought.

With so much fun in them,

Perinban, ramesh, udaya, john, saravana balaji, inba sekar…………..so many friends,

we used to talk for hours with our friends! Now we don't have time to say a 'Hi'!

We sat to chat with Friends on grounds!

Now we are chatting in facebook, gtalk.....!

So much experience, all this and more! days were gone.

No matter how busy we are, we shall never forget to live the life that still exists...